Shaken not Stirred (“Giddy-Up” Cocktail Recipe)

I’ve never been a big drinker but once we started a family, drinking just naturally reverted to almost never.

Shortly after Mark’s brother retired, we noticed he enjoyed a cocktail hour every day,  and I thought, “Huh!” Our youngest had gone off to college and there was nothing stopping me from enjoying a cocktail now and then.

My husband and I are now over that honeymoon period of being empty-nesters with just “cake and vodka” in the house. Cocktails have become something worth learning to do right.

One of my favorites (because it’s fast and delicious), was this concoction Sandy and I threw together.

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Giddy-Up

1-9.5 ounce Starbucks coffee flavored Frappuccino
2 jiggers of vodka
1 jigger of Kahlua
1 jigger of Creme de Cacao

. In an ice filled shaker combine all the ingredients.
. Shake vigorously.
. Strain into a clean and well-chilled *Starbuck’s bottle

*The label peels off quite easily.  Then any leftover goo from the label and the “Sell by Date” can be removed with Goo-Gone.

Aside from our standard Polish toast,  “Sto Lat!” (May you live a hundred years.), this is going to be another favorite:

“To old age, may it always be ten years older than we are.”

Clink-clink

Traveling on a Budget

This past October, we needed to get away for a bit. Explore someplace new and exciting. Get the blood flowing again. We decided a trip to New Orleans was in order. The problem was our finances.

Everyone says that when you’re middle-aged, you should travel. I agree. I love to travel. But what if you just can’t afford elaborate trips? Never fear! All trips do not require you to take out a mortgage!

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We took the trip to New Orleans and spent almost a full week there. We were able to do everything on our “New Orleans Bucket List” and only spent $475 per person. Total! That included splurges like dinner at Emeril’s and The Irish House. Here’s how we do it:

  • Set a Goal – I have found that saving for an “unknown future trip” is not enough incentive to squirrel away money. Having a set destination and an estimated time-frame keeps it in the forefront of our brains. We are more aware of it and save a bit more. Keep in mind, you should stay flexible!
  • Save Creatively – My friend Jean throws all her change in a jar. Remember, “Pennies Make Dollars” and Jean literally saved enough change to take her whole family (6 people) to Disney World. Irene prepares taxes for 3 months to get her annual “Gulf Shores vacation” money. I hold yard sales and sell everything I’ve accumulated for 37 years but can’t fit in the Kentucky house. You can clip coupons and everything saved goes in a travel fund, or give up pizza every week for a year. Use your talent to bake for someone’s event or tutor or sew curtains. The key is to put something away towards travel without it affecting your day-to-day living.yard sale
  • Be flexible – Some of the best deals are available with 30 days (or less) notice. If you’re flexible, you have a better chance of getting a great, affordable trip.
  • Sign up for notification – The internet is your friend for notifying you of great deals. Especially, if you’re flexible. (Need to know who to sign up with? We’ve created a partial list of Travel Discount Notifications.)notification
  • Sign up for perks – Sign up for Frequent Flyer miles, Hotel memberships, etc. You receive “points” every time you use it or in some cases, make purchases that give you travel miles. The points (or miles) can be turned in for a free hotel room, free or discounted travel or upgrades. Check out our partial list Travel Perks (Points and Miles) for suggestions. If you have a credit card, convert it to travel points. I don’t have credit cards, so can’t speak intelligently about this, but the Frugal Travel Guy seems to have it down pat. Check out his blog.
  • USE your discounts – Too many of us have discounts and we don’t use them. Everyone thinks of AAA for travel discounts but did you know other companies and organizations offer discounts to their employees and members? Some examples include:
    • American Automobile Association (AAA)
    • American Association of Retired Persons (AARP)
    • Costco
    • Farm Bureau
    • The American Legion
    • Unions and Associations:
      • Public Employee Federation (PEF)
      • United Food and Commercial Workers (UFCW)
      • National Education Association (NEA)
      • American Federation of Teachers (AFT)
      • American Federation of Government Employees (AFGE)

Ask your insurance agent, former or current employer, credit card company, union, bank and/or credit union,  or any organization you are a member of if they offer travel benefits.

ASK! At hotels, restaurants, and attractions, always ask if they give a senior discount. The definition of “senior” varies. I have been taking advantage of this since I was 50.

  • Explore near home – Weekend and day trips are great for getaways! Check out things closer to home for an affordable alternative to a “2 week European adventure”. Currently, we are visiting every remaining covered bridge in Kentucky (Indiana is next!), and doing the Bourbon Trail one distillery at a time. Go to a winery, brewery, local garden, historical site or town, sauna, golf club. The list is endless! Create a Bucket List for things to see and do near you.

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  • Get a travel buddy (or not) – Consider your spouse, child, niece/nephew, cousin, friend, coworker. Splitting the expenses goes a long way. Many travel packages are based on two people traveling. Just make sure it’s someone you can travel with and that you won’t have to forfeit part of your enjoyment. If you don’t have a travel buddy, you may not have anyone to split expenses with, but it’s easier to control spending, so still very doable.
  • Include breakfast – Stay at a Bed and Breakfast or book a hotel package that includes breakfast. You get at least one good meal a day and can save your money for shopping or drinking at the pubs!

barb miss barb

  • Decorate a Cheap Hotel Room – This one may strike you as strange, but Irene and I have taken many trips using this little money saver. We would find a ‘newly renovated’ or a new cheap hotel (like Red Roof Inn) and get a room with two double beds for $29 – $49 per night. Then a quick trip to the nearest Walmart or Dollar General to purchase a coffee maker, candles, silk flowers and a vase, chenille throws and toss pillows, small rugs, a decorative soap dish and Goat’s Milk Soap, and a tablecloth. A few times, we even got inexpensive beaded lamps, water fountains and a stuffed cat. It makes the room much more tolerable for very little money and you can take all your purchases home to the kids.
  • Kitchenette – Many hotel rooms come with a small refrigerator and microwave (and up to a full kitchen). You can buy groceries or bring home leftovers to extend your meals.

fridge in room

  • Share an entrée – Most times when we eat at a restaurant, we end up leaving half of the meal. Split the entrée and if you’re still hungry, get another side dish, or better yet, dessert. If you’re traveling alone, order soup or salad and an appetizer rather then an entrée.

bill and dessert

  • Do Your Research! – A few minutes (or an hour) doing research online or on the phone can save you hundreds of dollars. Sometimes the deal on a travel site is phenomenal and you certainly should book online. Be aware, though, that if the deal isn’t great, you should NOT book online so that you get credit on your hotel or air membership. Do your research!
  • Travel Off Season – If the hustle and bustle of the crowds isn’t what appeals to you, consider going off season. Everything can be less expensive! There’s a great article on How to Travel in the Off Season for Great Deals by lifehacker.
  • Rent – If a long stay is what you desire, consider renting an apartment, house or villa rather then booking a hotel. There are two sites worth checking for rentals: HomeAway and VRBO
  • Consider Alternative Means of Traveling – We always think of cars, planes and cruise ships when thinking about traveling, but there are also trains and buses.
    train ride

Amtrak has great deals and a Frequent User program. If traveling by train, here are some helpful hints to make your trip more enjoyable:

    • If you didn’t get a sleeper car, bring a travel neck pillow. The seats are large and spacious and sometimes it’s difficult to rest your head.
    • Speak to the conductor and request you are notified of every stop that has sufficient time to get off and stretch your legs. Stretch your legs! For smokers, it’s a necessity for making the trip tolerable.
    • If the train is empty and you’re traveling with buddies, spread out for as long as you can. It’s easier to lay across 2 seats then find a comfortable spot in one. As the train fills up, you’ll have to give up this luxury so take advantage while you can.
    • Bring a deck of cards, laptop, iPod, snacks and drinks. We actually brought a small cooler. When you’re not sleeping, you can go to the lounge car and sit at tables and play cards, etc. while enjoying the passing view.

Megabus is a very low-priced option to get you to a destination. You have to be flexible and keep in mind you may have to take more then one bus.

  • Demos – Although I have never tried this option, I have friends who do all of their traveling by attending demonstrations. Usually, a sales-pitch (condo sales are typical), this couple has spent weeks in Hawaii, California, Alaska and Colorado by agreeing to spend 1-4 hours listening to the demo. They have had meals, hotels and even round-trip airfare paid by investing a few hours of their vacation.

I’m certain I’m missing a lot of great tricks for traveling without auctioning off the first-born child. I’d love to hear your tips so, please, share!

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Finding Your Passion (Getting motivated)

My sister, Sandy, and I have had discussions about this question: “What words do you hate?”. We both agreed that Polish words describing certain body parts and pretentious French words, such as croissant (pronounced kwah-sahn, rather than, kruh-sahnt), were definitely high up on our list.

Another word I’m not fond of is “passion”. It’s over-used. Not to mention that I feel embarrassed, because, at my age, I haven’t yet found mine, let alone followed it.

Saturday morning I decided to attend an informal class on decorating heart cookies at Anchor Church.  I don’t bake often. I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day. I went to be in the company of church ladies. Well, what a surprise! I enjoyed the experience and was pleased with the results of my first attempts.

Heart

After this little class, I can’t say that I found my passion, but I did feel a bit more motivated and inspired.

Here are my conclusions:
• Passion doesn’t exist naturally waiting to be found. It’s an effect of what you do.
• We shouldn’t measure ourselves against others (Don’t think that your passions aren’t as good as another’s passions).
• Avoid distraction, anger and procrastination because these are ways of avoiding the fear of discomfort and the fear of failure.
• Try new things. Step out of your comfort zone. Make things. Build. Learn new skills. Welcome new adventures. Make new friends.
• Have an “I’ll try it!” attitude.
• If there’s even a flicker of interest, pursue it.
• Don’t push yourself to the impossible “perfect”.

voltaire

If you’ve kept up with our posts, you already know that I love apps. And, there’s an app that coincides with this post. It’s called “Curious”. This free app is for the “lifelong learner” that teaches you everything from how to train a dog to how to flirt in Italian.

Curious

So, I’m limiting the word “passion” in my vocabulary. I’ve decided it does not give my life purpose. I will focus on small triumphs and appreciate the little scraps of joy that I experience every day.

Einstein

Weird and Funny Apps

I am in awe of technology today, especially apps. My financial planner told me about an app that deposits money into the account of someone currently incarcerated. Not only do you fatten the jailbird’s wallet, you can send emails, chat with “video visitation” and give the gift of music. It’s called “JPay”. Cute, right? But that got me thinking about other apps that are, let’s say, odd.

JPay

 

Confession—A Roman Catholic App

I gotta tell you, this one excited me. Avoiding the confessional to confess my evil-doing directly to God was very appealing. Upon researching, I found that you still need a priest (sigh).

On the positive side:

  • A password maintains the seal of confession.
  • The 10 commandments and prayers are at your fingertips (in case you need a refresher).
  • You can add your own sins if they’re not listed in the list of relevant sins, (using “OMG”?).

On the negative side:

  • The app is $1.99
  • Is this post irreverent and considered a sin?

Confession

 

Bowel Mover Lite

Bowel Mover Lite tracks your poop. Yep, you heard me right.   It’s like a poo log (oh, that’s funny). Your personal goal defaults to “sausage soft”. To reach this goal, the app tracks the number of bowel movements and the texture (I wonder if “milk duds” is a choice). It also lets you take photos and make notes (I’m not sure what kind of notes you would take). Finally, this app provides a graph so you can analyze your poo-poo habits like a financial planner analyzes the growth of mutual funds.

Free at the App Store.

Disclaimer: For those who experience digestive woes and would probably benefit from this app, my deepest apology.

Bowel_Mover

 

Instant Buttons 

This app provides over 200 funny sounds many of which I don’t recognize. What is “Ya Tu Sabe”, “Wololo”or “Stelio Kontos”? No worries.  There are plenty of sounds we older people can use with aplomb:

  • “Doorbell”: when a phone conversation drones on and on.
  • “Censor Beep”: when anything offends.
  • “Cookie Monster”: at the next potluck.
  • “Crickets”: when an answer just isn’t coming.
  • “Cuckoo”: self explanatory.
  • “Hump Day”: every Wednesday.
  • “Nailed It” at your next performance evaluation.
  • “Pirate” use on “Talk Like a Pirate Day”.
  • “Psycho” self explanatory.
  • “Punch” again, self explanatory.
  • “Shut Up” and another that’s self explanatory.
  • Twilight Zone when things are just, well, weird.

I also enjoyed “Whip”, “Drama”, “Drumroll”, “Kiss”, “Looney Tunes”, “Nein”, “Ooooh”, “Rocky”, and “Tada”!

Instant_button

 

Annoy-A-Teen

That immature attitude of getting even with teens gets the royal treatment with this app. No more wasting energy singing and dancing in front of them (and worse, their friends). Take that already half-irritated teen to the fullest with a sound that drives them crazier, (while your older-than-dirt ears can’t hear a thing). Added bonus: you can go undercover and hide your phone in your pocket and they’ll never know what hit them!

Annoy_a_teen

 

Melon Meter

Stop wasting your money buying unripe melons! Using this app is easy. Place the microphone side of your phone on the melon, press the red button and thump like a heart on crack until the app indicates that you stop. It will then tell you if the melon is ready to eat. There are a couple of drawbacks. The app only works on medium and large melons (moan) and the cost is $1.99.

melon_meter

 

 

Sometime in the near future I plan on researching these apps:

  • Hex My Ex
  • Toothbrush Fitness
  • Amazing Girlfriend Manager
  • Gym Shamer (get in shape or get shamed)

 

Get any of these apps for your iPhone or iPad in the Apple App Store

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