Yard Sales

Hear that? Birds are singing and lawnmowers are running. It’s spring! You know what that means? Yard Sales!!!! Get ready to score some cash and get rid of Aunt Dorothy’s porch goose and its twelve outfits!

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Every June our neighborhood has a street sale that draws a ton of people. I’ve participated many times before and plan to participate this year. If you’re not lucky enough to have someone plan a street sale, team up with a neighbor, seek out group sales at churches (rent a table), city-wide sales or even the longest yard sale.

Here are suggestions to have a successful sale:

Two months before the sale
  • Start de-cluttering one area/room at a time. Keep Swiffer Sweeper dry sheets and Clorox wipes handy to quickly clean items. Also, remember that the dishwasher is your friend.
  • Price as you go and you’ll be pleasantly surprised to find your “treasures” automatically organize themselves. ie., kitchen stuff will all be together, clothing will all be in one place, etc.

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Pricing:

Do you want to make money or get rid of things? Price accordingly.  I generally mark items down 25%-30% of what I paid new. I say “generally”, because you tend to price higher if you’re unsure you want to sell. Believe me. Some items are fraught with meaning and make their way back into the house. Don’t feel guilty if you’re not ready to part with something!

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What you need:
  • Stickers–My favorite are the pre-priced, round, neon stickers you can find at Dollar Tree.
  • Tags with strings—I bought a box of 1,000 for about $10 at an office supply store and they’ll last a lifetime.
  • A china marker–These are wonderful to mark directly onto hard, glossy, non-porous surfaces such as porcelain, glass, polished stone, plastic and ceramics.
  • Blue painters tape and a Sharpie for odd items.
  • Safety pins for clothing, linens, etc.

I write little “notes” on the price tags of some items to make them more intriguing, (a glass bowl with a lid may be a “great cotton ball holder” or a hankie becomes a “mother-in-law”  or “bride’s” hankie).

This is also a good time to start saving bags and packing material.

Two weeks before the sale

Make signs.

Sign

  • Check with local government and Homeowners’ Associations for restrictions as to the length of time and placement of signs
  • Place signs in each direction (North, South, East and West) on the first street with a posted speed limit (the busier streets with the most traffic). Don’t forget to put a sign in front of the house and add balloons, crepe paper or other attention-getting material.
  • Signs should read: “Yard/Garage Sale”.  State the day, start time, end time and address with an arrow pointing in the right direction.

If you have a number of comparable items such as magazines, t-shirts or items that sell for one price, then make a sign that applies to that grouping. (eg., $1 for t-shirts, .25 for anything on this table, etc.) There’s no harm in being clever as it attracts attention and makes sales. I once had several leftover gallons of latex paint that were ignored. Slapping on a sign that read:

LOOK Crafters

did the trick.

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Use plastic page protectors to keep your signs dry. In addition, wind won’t blow them away and you can use them again next year.

Advertise
  • Place your event on your city calendar. Google your city and state (eg., Phoenix AZ yard sale calendar). In most instances, it’s free.
  • Use Craig’s List.
  • Use Garage Sales Tracker
  • Bulletin Boards (Wal-Mart, grocery stores)
  • Catholic church bulletins
  • List your yard sale in the newspaper classifieds (both the paper version and the online version). You can create your ad online with a credit card.
Two days before
  • Make sure you have a working electrical outlet and batteries to test sale items.
  • Have a lot of change. I usually start with a roll each of quarters, dimes and nickels, twenty-five $1 bills and a few $5 and $10 bills.

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  • Set up. Our street sale has a special viewing for our neighbors on Friday night. If that’s not a factor, it’s still nice to be ready two days before the sale.
  • Lower the prices halfway through the sale. Everything (except those things I changed my mind about) goes for 50% off. This becomes a great response to give those annoying low-ballers. I just point to the “50% off at 11:00 a.m.” sign and smile.

I once put out a box of free items and a bald, middle aged, butterball of a man picked up the whole box and walked away. So, now I intersperse the free items with other items for sale and watch the glee when someone finds a treasure with a price tag that totes: “FREE”.

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The morning of the sale:
  • Put the most desirable things like furniture and “man toys” (lawn mowers, tools and fishing equipment) close to the street so customers will be drawn to your sale as they drive by.
  • Turn on the music. It will alleviate any awkward silence and make your customers feel welcome.
  • Offer bags (that you’ve been saving) to those with full hands…so they’re unburdened and likely to purchase more.
  • Sell, Sell, Sell–Sandy and her dear husband, Eddie, were with us to help on the last street sale.  They taught me a thing or two about selling:  Don’t be shy!  Tell that lady who is trying on that hat that she looks lovely.  Engage the customer. Be friendly. Be fun.
Don’ts
  • Don’t sell things that belong to others. I once sold my youngest son’s Super Nintendo System. Something I still regret even though it has since been replaced.
  • Don’t leave your cash box unattended. Better yet, wear an apron with pockets.
  • Don’t let anyone into your home. Even if they have to use the restroom.
  • Don’t “bad mouth” your merchandise.
At the end of the sale 

Anything that hasn’t sold can be donated. Listing items as they get packed into boxes will make non-cash charitable deductions easier to calculate at tax time.  We’ve been approached by local churches to pickup items that haven’t sold, but you can schedule a pickup. Some charities that pick-up are:

So, have a blast, make room for the things you love, meet your neighbors and make new friends all while making some pocket money!

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Re-Entering the Work Force: How to Nail an Interview

You can have the greatest resume ever written and still not get the job. Not if you don’t interview well. If you’re lucky enough to get an interview, make sure you make an outstanding impression. It may be the difference between getting the job and not.

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OK, I admit it. The first time I was interviewed by a ‘panel’ of people (3 or more people conducting the interview at the same time), I was so nervous, I leaked (just a little bit) from almost every opening in my body. But after a few more panel interviews, I got good at it. I realized that if you know how, it’s not that difficult. If you want to nail your interview, there are 3 things that make it easier: Prepare, Know how to answer questions, and Practice.

PREPARE:

Treat “getting a job” as a job. Work at it 8 hours a day: do your homework and study.

  • Research the company. Find out what you can: What do they do? Who do they do it for? How well do they do it? Who is their competition? Do they have a website? If so, read it. Become an expert on their accomplishments and goals. (It shows initiative and may set you apart from other candidates.)
  • Drive to the location so you know exactly where you’ll be going on the day of the interview. (The worst first impression you can make is to be late for an interview.)drive to interview
  • Jot down your answers to the potential interview questions and learn them. (At our age, things we “know” aren’t always easily accessible by our brains! We’ll cover how you should answer questions just below).
  • Take care of your appearance. Select an appropriate outfit and have it ready at all times. When he was a teenager, my son couldn’t figure out why he wasn’t getting jobs. When I suggested that the baggy pants with chains, 26 earrings, doo-rag and unkempt beard (which was curly and reminded me of a pubic bush) might possibly have something to do with it, he said “If they want me, they must take me as I am!” Apparently, they didn’t. When hiring, books are often judged by their covers (there’s little else to go on), so unless you’re applying for a job in the theatre, tone it down.
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ANSWERING QUESTIONS:

During the interview, keep these hints in mind:

  • Pause. After a question is asked, pause (for just a minute) and collect your thoughts. You don’t want to appear ‘rehearsed’ but you don’t want to stumble over your words or say something inappropriate either.

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  • Know the potential interview questions and your answers. Keep in mind, the same answer can apply to multiple questions, especially the Behavioral Questions (questions that require an example of a time you encountered a specific situation). Monster.com has a good list of 100 Potential Interview Questions. (I told you it was a full time job looking for a job!)
  • Answer Behavioral Questions using 3 parts: (1) State the situation, (2) describe what action YOU took, and, all too often omitted, (3) explain what the end result was. (Don’t use words like “we”. They’re only interested in what you did. They’re not hiring your “team” or your coworkers.)

 

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  • Be selective about your answers. Just because it happened, doesn’t mean you should share it in an interview. If the subject generally makes people squirm, don’t use it as an example. Once, a coworker went on an interview and when asked to describe a difficult situation, she described a time she had to ask a male employee not to masturbate at his desk. Although she had handled the situation admirably, it wasn’t the best example to use during an interview. She didn’t get the job.
  • Be honest. Don’t lie or try to fudge an answer to a question. If you can’t think of an answer quickly, ask if you can come back to it later. If you don’t know the answer, say so.
  • If you’re given a brainteaser question, feel free to open your notebook (you brought one, didn’t you?) and calculate the answer. The logic you use is more important than having the correct answer (but the correct answer doesn’t hurt).calculate
PRACTICE:

Practice. Then practice some more. Practice with a friend, with your pet, with a mirror. Practice answering interview questions while doing dishes, and practice out loud. Everything sounds great in our heads; not so much when we say it out loud. The more you practice, the more comfortable (and as a result, more natural) you will be.

I suppose carrying a rabbit’s foot couldn’t hurt, either. Good luck!

Read Re-Entering the Work Force: Writing a Resume to create the best resume for the job.

The Eyebrows Have it

I’m a stickler for good brows. I obsess about finding a way to make sure that my eyebrows are maintained, (and my mustache and beard are kept at bay), when I finally reside in a nursing home.

Once you see bad eyebrows, that bell can’t be un-rung and they become the only thing you notice.

bad eyebrows

We moisturize, manicure our nails, dye our hair and, (at least think about) exercise and eat right. Like everything else, our brows can start to show our age. They become thin, coarse, unruly and/or turn gray.

To top it all off, those of us who are over 40 and followed the trend in the late 80’s and early 90’s, plucking and waxing left so many of us fighting over-plucked and over-shaped brows.

Today, strong brows are one of the biggest trends—a challenge to most of us 50-somethings.

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Help for the Over-Tweezed Among Us

A full, arched eyebrow gives your face an overall “lift”. Good brows set a good foundation for your whole face.

Almost every woman over 50 should fill in her brows as part of her daily beauty routine. All it takes is an eyebrow brush, a pencil, tweezers and brow gel.

Condition Brows

Some swear by pricey eyebrow conditioners or castor oil. I just add a dab of my hair conditioner to my brows and rinse while in the shower.

Comb out brows

I use one similar to this brush. I first comb against the growth and then smooth back in the proper direction.

Tweeze

Tweeze only stray hairs. To avoid going overboard, I have considered getting an eyebrow stencil, drawing it on and tweezing all hairs outside of the line.

Fill in sparse spots

Select a soft pencil a shade lighter than your brows. If brows are fair, choose a pencil that’s a shade darker than brows. I prefer Mary Kay Brow Definer Pencil.

Use short, feathered strokes. Your aim here is not to create a definite line, but to mimic the appearance of hair. Drawn-in brows are a big no-no because they age you and are somewhat tacky. Don’t pencil in the entire brow either, as this will result in an unnatural look.

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Brush Brows

Use the spoolie end of your brush to brush through both eyebrows. This will blend in the pencil with your hair so everything looks uniform and natural.

Set Brows

I suppose a spritz of hairspray on your finger would set your brows, but I prefer Mary Kay Brow Gel.

Other things to consider
• Start with a good base and get your brows professionally shaped.
• Never, ever over-pluck.
• You’re not weird if your eyebrows aren’t the same on both sides…they’re siblings not twins.
• Trim the longer hairs occasionally. Brush your brows up and use a pair of nail scissors. Don’t overdo it. Trim just the tips.
• Stop using a magnifying mirror. See your eyebrows as part of your entire face to find the best shape and know when to stop tweezing.
• Eyebrows are not always as sparse as they look. They may have just become gray or white. My hairdresser dyes my eyebrows during regular appointments.
• My cousin’s wife, Candida, has been dealing with Alopecia for most of her life. Prior to losing all of her hair, she used the (now extinct) Maybelline Cake Brow Powder. (Maybelline recommends Brow Drama). She has now gone completely hairless and has had her eyebrows tattooed and they look stunning! So, if your eyebrows seem to be hopelessly thin, consider tattoos.

Thanks to my coworker, Madeline Mikita, I didn’t have to hunt very long for, what I thought, were beautiful eyebrows:

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Here’s a website that addresses other problems you may experience:

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So here’s to a long, happy life with gorgeous eyebrows…

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Scottish Shortbread Recipe

My friend, Regina, loves this shortbread and said we should share the recipe. The cookies are the perfect texture – firm and crunchy but still crumbly – and the perfect blend of sweet and buttery. So, for Regina, and all of you who need an easy, fast recipe that’s perfect with coffee, or to take as a gift when visiting a friend, this is the Scottish Shortbread recipe we use.

There are only 3 ingredients: Butter, Sugar and Flour.

01 ingredients

INGREDIENTS:

1 cup real butter (2 sticks), at room temperature

½ cup sugar

2 cups all-purpose flour

You can use either granulated white sugar or packed brown sugar. We generally use brown since it adds a rich, caramel flavor.

DIRECTIONS:

Preheat the oven to 325 degrees Fahrenheit. Place a sheet of parchment paper on a cookie sheet.

Place butter and sugar in a bowl.

02 butter and sugar

Using an electric mixer, cream the butter and sugar until it’s light and fluffy.

03-04 cream butter and sugar

Add 1/3 of the flour and mix. Repeat until all of the flour is mixed in.

05 add flour

You should be able to pinch the ‘dough’ and see that it sticks together.

06 pinch flour

Turn the ‘dough’ onto the table or board, lightly floured.

07-08 turn dough on table

Knead the dough for about 5 minutes and place on the cookie sheet.

09 knead dough

Roll or pat the dough into a rough oval or rectangle about ½” thick and cut into squares (roughly 1 ½” square). (At times, this can get a tad frustrating. Sometimes, depending on the weather, the dough seems too crumbly. Take a breath, and keep pressing and patting. It’ll be worth it!)

10-11 cut dough

Place in the oven and bake for about 25 minutes or until the cookies are golden brown.

Let cool thoroughly before enjoying. The cookies won’t ‘set’ (get firm) until they’re totally cooled.

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